life
(Monday, October 22 / 11:31 PM)

hmm recently, a friend uploaded an interesting viewpoint on stuffs...

No pointing fingers
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

'It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character.'
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..

You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you.
Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

and most imptly...
'Good Life starts only when you stop wanting a better One' !!!!

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so as usual i still have tons to do but somehow..
i always tend to slack
i'm finding it hard to focus..am always thinking of having fun
-bad-
or doing some insignificant stuffs
like punching holes in my worksheets..writing names..pasting reinforcement rings
sorting out the things tt i'm lagging behind
writing mkting notes...

am not motivated :x

its juz...
i dun seem to reap what i sow
lol...tt turns me off from studies

in anws i like lab work..
dealing wif colourful maps..
but its juz too time consuming and it makes the pc cluster my second home.. :p

am sleeping very late dis few days..
and yesterday i read dis article abt "women who slpt late will have a higher tendency of suffering from high blood pressure" oh wells..i'm still slping late lol.

anws din go for yl's bdae last fri since i've 2 quizzes dis wk + i dun go kbox..
(sometimes.i juz wonder..am i abnormal? lol...i dun k, i dun club so wat do i do??)
so ended up having dinner wif deph and ben.. AJISEN ramen. deph is like the onli person tt i noe who LUVS volcano ramen other then madz. hehe.. long time!

I've been 'intruding' to deph-ben's time dis few days :p
mon.tues.fri...lol the most days tt i've seen her in a week so far...
considering tt deph has 3days week
felt rather bad even tho she ensured me tt its alright but den again... haha i still felt bad :x
THANKS GAL! for sharing time with me...

and on fri i received a rather surprising msg(consider tt we din contact one another for a long time)..from a person who did care and still do aft so long! thanks for everything :]

and its funnie to see mal laughed so heartily tt she had to laugh into the pillow to stop herself from bursting out into laughters again and yet again. i shall buy more pillows for her lol..
its been a long time since laughters visited me :p